new strength

yesterday, I lost a friend. i selfishly cry and mourn my loss. i ache for his family. through all the grief, however, I made a wonderful discovery. D's wife has a blog.

R created a journal of their lives amidst the battle with cancer. with no small credit given to God. each day she writes of hope and discovery. love and compassion. the bonds of friendship. the potency of humor. the agony of defeat. and faith. unwaivering faith.

I often tout my amazement at new technology - the notion of cyberspace diaries. now I can say that I marvel in the wisdom and strength found there. such lessons to be learned. I am eternally grateful to R for sharing her most personal moments. she leaves a legacy for family and friends.

time with my friend was short. I loved each and every day we worked together. he was hardworking, diligent, loyal. he had a dry witty sense of humor. you could see the mischief in his eyes. he was eager to learn. he was humble. he was heroic. he loved his family and God. I am proud to say he was one of the best men I have ever known. and I am a better person for knowing him.

if you have a chance, read Joy, Joy in the Journey. her journal. be armed with a box to kleenx. be ready to garner her strength. be at peace.